Key Rules-Dating Advice for Women

Here is some practical advice for women who are dating men.

• Have your recently broken with your boyfriend or spouse and started on a new relationship? Set the emotional baggage and your past aside when you meet your date.
• Do not indulge in talking too much about your painful history.
• Be yourself while you converse with your date. Well, you may not suit the perfect picture of the woman he prefers to be with, however, your dishonesty may lead you to frustration at a later date.
• Never lose your individuality while you are dating. No man wants his wife to agree with everything he says, whether she likes it or not!
• Do not start a conversation on marriage or starting a family until you are so sure that he is the one. Also, assess whether he would be comfortable talking about these with you at this point of time.
• Sometimes, men are slower when it comes to long term commitment. Do not make him feel trapped in the relationship. So, give the person sufficient time to make up his mind.
• If he passes a compliment, gracefully accept it; tell your thanks and move on to some other topic.
• Always be on time. It never pays to be late for a date. This is a gesture to tell your man that you value your time with him and are looking forward to meet him.

How to Win Back the Love of Your Ex

If you love him and don't want to lose him, you have to take the first move towards contacting him to begin the reconciliation process. You have to be careful when contacting him or you may intrude thereby trigger a non-responsive attitude from him. Talking about contacting him trying to get back your ex, you may act in a way that reveals your anxiety and desperation, that's the last thing you need right now because you may act in a way that will make him feel you are a pain in the neck.

As you elude from contacting your spouse, he will begin to miss you rather than think of you as one who is intruding into his feelings. He sure will begin to think of you more positive and will definitely miss your loving presence.

Like I was saying, you have to accept responsibility for your actions by apologizing. He may want to see proof on whether you have actually realized and admitted your error, fault or mistakes. If not you are making things difficult and you may as well forget about getting reconciled to him; that is if you was at fault or the breakup was caused by an argument (exchange of words).

Perhaps you're saying Donald you don't understand, it's more complicated than only apologizing (which is mostly the case nowadays), then you are going to have to do just more than apologizing. You know best how bad (deep) the situation has become definitely you may need to contact a relationship expert to solve and put an end to this conflict.

Mistakes happen all the time, it's surprising how only a little mistake could cause such separation from our spouse. Let's identify the steps to get your ex boyfriend back and keep him. What you should do right now can be found below at the resource box. Good-luck.

12 Qualities Women Want in Their Men

12 Qualities a woman looks for in a man

1. Honesty - This is high up on the list and is a must for guys. When I say honest I mean being honest about everything. If your partner asks you 'Do you like my hair' a response could be 'I like it but I preferred it when it was longer.' When you are honest about everything you will get a reputation for being honest and you will get more respect and gain trust a lot quicker. If you are found out with one lie then the trust will disappear and it will be hard to gain back.
2. To be able to protect - According to the women I have spoken with they want to know their partner will be able to protect them physically in times of danger or trouble. That's not to say women are weak it's a security thing and knowing that their partner is capable or willing to protect them at all costs gives women a little more peace of mind.
3. Get up and go - Women don't like men who have no motivation to do anything with their lives. They want a man who has passion and has goals in life and has got the motivation to follow their dreams.
4. Belief - Believe in your wife/girlfriend and support and encourage her in everything she does.
5. Sense of humour - This one obviously depends on each couple as everybody has a different sense of humour but women like men who can make them laugh. That's not to say you have to be like Robin Williams, just someone who has a sense of humour and exercises it often.
6. Reliability - This is another one high up on the list. You've got to be reliable if you want your partner to stick with you for the long term. If she has an evening meal planned for you and you promised you'll be home by 7 and you come strolling in at 8, this is not being reliable. Yes, work is important but more important is the woman who loves you enough to prepare a meal and make an effort on a Friday night.
7. Commitment - An absolute must for any long term relationship. If you are not committed then there will always be that little doubt in the back of her mind asking if you are really serious about the relationship.
8. Respect - There's no question of this, if you disrespect her you may as well throw the relationship out of the window right now. It's not only respect for her but it's respect for yourself as well. If you let people walk all over you then you are not respecting yourself and this is a turn off for women.
9. Attuned to feelings - For the old fashioned man out there one of the main things you were missing was the ability to stay in tune with your partners feelings. If you are attuned to your partner's feelings then it shows respect, caring and love. That doesn't mean to say you let them walk all over you it just means you are in touch with her, and you know how to handle the emotions, upsets and excitement etc.
10. Attractiveness - This is something you are born with and it's also something that is very subjective. Everyone has an attractive feature about them and rest assured someone will be attracted to you because of it. However if you let yourself go and don't really care about yourself, you'll be dropped like a hot potato.
11. Assertiveness - Woman can stand up for themselves very well but they still like a man to be assertive as well. Women don't like weak men, so grow a pair and stand up for yourself and your wife.
12. Faithful - Shouldn't even have to be said here, but so many men think they can get away with being unfaithful and it not affect them. You will never be respected once you've been unfaithful and there is absolutely no excuse for it.