Do guys respond favorably to you on that first date, but then something goes awry and you know you've just killed the attraction? How many times have you gone through the same thing, each time wondering what you did wrong? Will this continue or are you ready to put a stop to the nonsense and really have a great relationship with a guy? Learn the mistakes women make and how to steer clear.
Pressure Cooker
I recently witnessed a young girl of fifteen talking to her sixteen year old boyfriend. She greeted him with a nasty comment about his attire, remarked that he was late and then huffed at his plans for the evening. The guy initially took it in stride and apologized to her, but when her back was turned, he gazed at the sky and seemed far from happy.
Incredible how young we start to get on guys' backs. If you're attracted to him, take him as he is. This isn't a fixer upper.
Miss Please
Then there is the girl who wants it so bad, who wants to make him happy and needs desperately to have him appreciate her that she goes far out and beyond to do things for him.
Being nice is great and guys will appreciate it. Being a doormat or simply being there to cater to a guy's every whim is unnatural, unhealthy and won't really get you anywhere. Truth be told, he's likely to see you as just desperate anyway.
Get a Life
When we meet a great guy and want to hang onto him, we can sometimes let everything drop in order to have more free time with him. This is a great way to build resentment for him, because you'll one day throw the fact that you gave so much up for him in his face. But in addition to this negative cross to bear, you're also giving him a fine chance to get good and fed up with your constant presence.
Give yourself your life back and give him a chance to have a breather every once in a while. You'll both be happier for it.
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