Tantalizing Kisser - Here's How to Get You There

Have you noticed that guys tend to back away a bit when it comes time to kissing you? Are they all soft and romantic one moment then they're looking for excuses to back out the next? Do you know you're lacking a good technique when it comes to your kisses, but you don't know what you need to change? Here's an up close and personal look at what goes on behind those lips.

Pucker Up

This is where you want you lips to be at their softness, not only to the touch but in the pressure you apply to that pucker. This isn't your Aunt Betty you're kissing so don't press your lips tightly together. You want this to be gentle and tender, just a brush of your lips against his.

Moisture Good, Slobber Not so Good

If you have a little over-salivating problem, you'll want to be careful to swallow a lot before you get close. Also avoid positions that have you leaning over him. Your best bet is to look up to him rather than down.

Say Ah

Some girls will open wide when they see the guy approaching with a kiss on his lips. This isn't a dentist exam, this is a tender kiss. Barely part your lips, just enough for his lip to fit in.

Move Into It

Don't just stand there stiff as a board. Let your body melt into his, lean into him and allow your hands to wander. Comb your fingers through his hair and pull him closer by tugging at the nape of his neck.

No Rush

Don't dive in and stab him with your tongue. This isn't an attack. Let your tongue slowly and tentatively slip in, nibble his lip with yours, then tenderly slip your tongue in again.

A great kiss can be incredibly seductive, so take your time and savor it.